Resolutions

As all people do i've made new years resolutions. This past year was rather difficult for me. I lost site of a few things that make me a strong independent woman. So this is the year of the journey back to me...the road back to smokin hot. ok maybe I wasn't really smoking hot...but I was more toned and most importantly more confident about myself. How do you balance being selfish with not losing yourself? I'm not sure at this point...but I know I have to do something to change.